Help! In need of advice!

Hello!
I'm new to this community, and I'm in desperate need of advice.
First I'd like to give some back story on my experience with astral projection. When I was very young my mother would tell me as a child before bed to have a nice trip. Nearly every night without fail she would say this. She raised my sister and I to be very open to the unknown and that it was okay. So naturally I've had experiences with astral projection before. The situation I'm about to tell you is a bit of a ride, but I'm determined to find some answers. 
  It is my belief as of this moment that I have found my soul mate. There is this guy who has come into my life on the Internet. For various reasons I will not explain what he does or what website he's on but he's quite successful as far as the Internet goes. Anyways my friend showed me him and I brushed him off entirely until two weeks later. On January 2nd, 2012 out of sheer curiosity I looked him up again. I absolutely adored him and what he did, but only in a fan sort of way. 
  Another two weeks go by and I feel this inevitable attraction towards him. He is very easy on the eyes, but it was really his whole personality that hit home. I figure that it's normal to have a crush on him, whatever. So I let it go. Days go by and somehow I start receiving these "signs", if you will. These signs were coincidences that would lead me back to him some how. For example if I had a certain song in my head, I would hear him singing it, or he'd mention it on twitter. Thats fine, whatever. Weeks go by and these "signs" or coincidences are occurring at a much more frequent rate, and they're becoming much more odd. 
 Finally I'm driven to meet him and see if anything happens. So I buy a ticket to a conference that he was scheduled to be at. He was in my hotel and everywhere I went I saw him. I meet him, and given time constraints we had a brief talk. He looked at me as if I was the only person in the room, and he wanted to talk more. Instead I moved along like I had to and didn't get the chance to talk to him again before the end of the weekend.
 Now the signs happen everyday and it literally tortures me, because I have no way to really get ahold of him.  Well last night i had an accidental astral projection, and i brought him to me. It was wonderful but unfortunately i didnt realize i was projecting so i didnt say what i needed him to hear.To try and fix this I decided to reach out to this community for help. Is there anyway I can get him to contact me in the physical? He seemed to know me quite well in the astral realm, but in the physical I'm not so sure. Please respond!  Also are there any ways I can project quicker, and more efficiently to ensure I get to him?